As promised, the following represents a very slightly edited selection of comments on the four preceding installments on the teen sex revolution in America. They include some previously posted comments for those who may have missed them. My responses are in italics:
“The one year my daughter went to public school was enough. The teacher was a left wing jerk (woman). Of course she just won a award from her peers. In an interview with the local paper she said she got into teaching ‘to mold their views.’
I was the only parent, supposedly, who wouldn’t let my kid attend this ugly woman’s sex education class (sixth grade). At least the school required her to send a notice about the days of sex ed.”
Just as many “journalists” are now dedicated to shaping and shading news rather than doing their jobs of reporting the news, many “educators” are like this “educator,” far less committed to teaching than they are to molding children’s views on sex, social issues, political issues, and acceptance of homosexuality and bi-sexuality.
“How much sex ed do our kids really need if its only about safe sex and not getting pregnant? They’d need two hours maybe. But it takes time to indoctrinate all those other agendas.”
“You are what you eat. You are what you play. Just as you can get by eating junk food for a while before it catches up to you, so, too, can you get by with filling your mind with violent activity for a while. But just like the poor food diet eventually affects your body, a steady diet of violence eventually affects the way your brain functions.
Anyone who plays sports or music knows that when you practice something over and over, you learn it as a reflex. You are able to do it more and more easily with less and less thought. It becomes ‘normal’ to you.”
So, too, do steady diets of disturbed propaganda tend to corrupt young minds.
“I didn’t see anything about consequences in your article.”
to Crystal Cove
I didn’t condone what rock stars, et al. do. I’m simply aware that the consequences for girls are far greater than they are for males. Aren’t you?
“Isn’t the fact that the rock stars, sports stars and high school quarterbacks are having this sex an issue too? Or is it just the young girls having sex that bothers you?”
Young girls have much more to lose as a result of promiscuity than do young men. That’s a biological reality and the consequences to girls include a greater risk of contracting STD’s and the very real risk of pregnancy. Also obvious is the fact that sex involves (at least) two people. However, since the male of our human species is more naturally randy, I didn’t address the male in this series because of that given.
“Suzie…” Sees Madonna kissing Britney on Mtv and thinks that is okay and tries it with Janey on a dare. Don’t forget that! I have read articles about girls who saw that Madonna/Britney and tried it!
I used the generic name “Suzie” because an ol’ song came to mind, the Everly Brothers “Wake Up, Little Suzie,” http://www.rockabilly.nl/lyrics4/w0011.htm. Probabilities are that Suzie wasn’t asleep due only to the 4 a m hour but back in those days reasons were left to the imagination. Today, far more explicit lyrics, as in “Mrs. Officer” explain why Suzie is so tired. As for that MTV kiss, see “Teen Sex Part Four.”
“I think there are a lot of clueless parents out there. Down the street from me right now is a fifteen year old girl who is pregnant. She is living with her common law husband who is 20! Yes 20. He lives with his parents. His parents are both divorced but still live together. He also has two sisters living in the house as well as three dogs and God only know how many cats.
This guy’s mother says Tony (his real name) can’t get a girl his own age he is immature. Well hell yea he is immature, he does not hold a job for very long, and own a car of course a girl his own age does not want to go out with him. So he dates 15 year olds. The last 15 year old he had staying at the home caused the police to make frequent stops because they were looking for her, Tony and Tony’s dad were hiding her on the hill behind their house in a tent.
This current girl is due next month. The baby is a girl. The Girl told me that her parents know she is here with Tony, I do not believe this. If she wants to wreck her life however, I will let her. The damage is done, she is pregnant.”
Would that Morgana’s sad tale was exceptional. “Tony-types” who are out of their leagues with girls their own age prey on more vulnerable victims such as that girl. To track sexual predators in your neigborhoods, try checking this site: http://www.mapsexoffenders.com/
“I’m a 27 year old male virgin until marriage. I took an oath when I was 17 and I aim to keep it. Getting a girl to sleep with you is not that big of an accomplishment, there are way too many loose women in this world. All it takes is some positives words, a couple of dates, some alcohol, and your good to go. I, for one, am waiting for “the one” not someone. Someone needs to help these girls, it really makes me sad to read they think so lowly of themselves.”
“I’m a 23 year old virgin and not afraid to admit it. These kids… incredible.”
Jaime and Wasted are clearly exceptions and exceptional exceptions to the rule today. The R-rated film, “The 40 Year Old Virgin” ridicules virginity in the person of the title character, Andy Stitzer, who is depicted as a schlep for not having bedded a woman by that age. He may be a schlep but what message does a 14 or 15 year old get who sees the film, and they do? How to waste your youth or how to avoid schlep-hood?
“It is clear that we were designed/evolved to have kids in our teens. Were we designed defectively? Has our evolution yet to catch up to reality? Or is teen parenthood not the disaster that most of us think it to be?”
I’m not sure how to respond to dbz77. He’s either a 40 year old virgin or one of those sickos who was caught on camera trying to seduce a 15 year old girl who turned out to be a 40 year old cop.
“Just yesterday my co-worker told me her 14 year old daughter is pregnant. 14!! I think mom is still in shock, but the boyfriend’s mom is thrilled!!!!
Then the boyfriend called my co-worker yesterday and wanted to spend the night with her daughter!!! She told him absolutely not!!!!
Boy, I saw this coming months ago. Her boyfriend is 17! In my opinion, she did not supervise her daughter very well. She would let her take off with him in his car. Too many opportunities were presented to them. I would venture to guess that his parents were even more permissive considering the reaction of his mom. She wanted to be a grandma so bad (she is 50). My God, she is just a child.”
“Another girl, a 17-year-old mother of a 7-month-old boy, says she lost her virginity on a school lunch break and deliberately planned her pregnancy by monitoring her menstrual cycle.” I’d like to ask her in a few years if she thinks that was still a good idea. She is looking forward to no husband/father, lower income and a miserable life.”
“Another girl, a 17-year-old mother of a 7-month-old boy, says she lost her virginity on a school lunch break and deliberately planned her pregnancy by monitoring her menstrual cycle.
‘I had helped teach a sex-ed class to a class of freshmen my sophomore year,’ she explains. ‘We taught how … there’s a week [in] the month you are more likely to get pregnant than any other time of the month. I had calculated that out and I decided on two days I was most likely to get pregnant.’
The article blames the problem on not enough sex education. These kids don’t need sex education, they know the consequences of unprotected sex, the girl in the statement above planned her pregnancy. They need ‘morals’ education, and unfortunately that has to come from home, and from school and it isn’t being taught in either place.”
Kids do need “morals education” but most of their sex and morals education comes from their buddies who want company to validate their own sexual experimentation and from websites such as this, provided by Planned Parenthood: http://takecaredownthere.org/#/learn/.
View it at your own risk. That site is more concerned with spreading the plague of homosexuality, encouraging pre-marital sex, and making money from abortions for Planned Parenthood than it’s interested in planning parenthood.
Comments on this series should be directed to this website, http://genelalor.com/.